There’s no way gay men use the term “grape popping” to mean having sex. If anyone has seen the color/shape/size of an anal pollup, you’ll know that NO ONE would reference anything around the anal region as “grape popping”.
Ok, seeing as noone has put this and half of you seem to think Stephen’s been bummed, grape popping is to do with piles. It’s where part of your intestine has burst through the muscle wall and hangs out of your arse, looking a bit like a grape. To fix? One rubber gloved finger to pop it back in
A simple medical procedure