I hate it when people use derogative terms such as the N word. I once had a black friend. We hung around all the time. Drinking ice tea, shopping at our local fabric store, buying hand-picked cotton shirts, and overall just having a cracking time. He was a large, deep dark man; at least 6’5″. He had a beautiful caucasion wife and a good home. They beat social norms and we’re happy together. He was whipped though. She never let him do anything with us boys; no drinking, smoking, circle-jerking, none! Anytime he got away, we always would treat him nicely. We once got him chains! His wife loved the role play. Any hoot, stop using the bad word because it has no significance anymore.