Yeah, not a good sponsor, really. Unless, the sponsor was either saying “Don’t 13th step” AKA date someone either new in the program themselves, or someone FROM an anonymous meeting as well. I was in a “rehab” house, which felt more like prison than the actual prison I went to, and they tried to tell me it was mandatory that I get a “temporary separation” from the husband I married…who is clean, and sober, and supportive of my abstinence to substances. I didn’t want to go to rehab in the first place, wasn’t ready to quit my shit yet, and really wasn’t going to get an annulment simply because the bitch, whom I know drinks a glass of wine every night (at least, I’m pretty sure), told me its not conducive to my recovery. This was of course when they finally let me try out-patient because I was done with in-patient at the time, was tired of being given more and more unnecessary paperwork simply to keep me there longer, and became even more angry every day than I already was…When she said that, I decided I was ready to go to prison, went in for another appointment with her, purposely drunk, and yeah. Got a trip to the northern part of my state for a five month stay at Prison. Prison helped a Hell of a lot more than the rehab “clinic”, and I didn’t want to die every day that I was there, unlike I did at the “clinic”…So, whomever was this chick’s sponsor, you can suck my, or my many single friends’ dicks, or, if you’re into women, you can suck my husband’s while I help you out orally.