The EXACT same thing happened to me once. BF decided the condom was not enhancing his experience, he tossed it aside and we forgot about it. Later mom finds it and torments me for awhile…thank god it was pre-facebook era.
#13 (and #2 even though #2 had wrong gender of parent), I agree with both of you. Better to teach your child safe sex than to embarrass them for having safe sex. Though the condom doesn’t look like it has been used in the whole manner that it was supposed to. I would use this as a teaching experience rather than a form of embarrassment.
I am assuming her and her parents have talked about safe sex. I am sure that they are very open about these things.
The fact that he took a picture of the condom and posted it on facebook to embarrass her, shows that he is NOT mad she is having sex. That he KNOWS she is having sex and that he just wanted to give her a hard time.
If a parent is going to post this and say… going to embarrass my daughter, lol…. they obviously have a close relationship where they are open to do these things.
If he was actually mad that she was having sex, he would have said, “Found this in my daughters room, SHE IS SO GROUNDED AND NOT COMING ON FACEBOOK ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!”
Brandy, you’re a smart one. You intended to wash away the evidence. Shame you couldn’t have thrown a bit farther. You’re not too handy with the old tug and toss, and your father has a good head on his shoulders; even if he is being hard on you. Not to mention being a huge dick.
Not as good as when my ex’s mum insisted on separating her rubbish bin for recycling and would then have a go at us for leaving condoms in the bin :S… After that I stopped tying a knot in them.. Fun times