Why the hell do people bother contacting the person a spouse is cheating with? Never understood it; the responsibility is with the cheater, not their fuck bag.
So much better to quietly drain the bank accounts, cut off their insurance, stop paying any bills in their name, and sell off all their important and valuable shit in one fell swoop. Preferably in untraceable cash transactions. Boom! Revenge, bitches.
thisisnotanexit, is that the real reason? I’m not trying to be cynical here, but I think the real reason most women seek out the “other woman” (one way or another) is to see what she’s like – or more to the point, what she looks like, and to see if she’s hotter/slimmer/younger/or whatever than themselves. It’s normal female curiosity. You can disagree with me if you want, but basically, it all comes down to looks. Everything does. It’s a shallow world we live in, guys.
if a man wants to be with a woman who won’t tell him he sucks in bed, maybe he shouldn’t suck in bed. if i think you’re bad in bed i’m not keeping that shit to myself. although i will have a more reasonable list of things i liked and things i didn’t instead of just going BOOOOO
as for contacting the other woman, i agree with word. it’s just to see what she’s like. does she seem bitchy? ditzy? tall, short? what does she have that the wife doesn’t have. who cares if she knew that the guy was married, the guy is still cheating.
I wish you had told me you wanted a guy who was GOOD in bed, all this time I’ve been working at getting as bad in bed as possible.
It’s obvious you women just want to see how has bigger boobs. I assume that’s what you do when you confront another woman anyway, among other things….and I spend A LOT of time fantasizing about that exact situation so I’m probably the most experienced person here regarding woman-on-woman confrontations.
My wife usually wants to know what my girlfriends look like AND if they knew about her. If they knew about her, she storms out of the cafe and leaves my girlfriend with the bill. My wife takes like 6 sugars. Sweet revenge, she says.
You’d actually be surprised, but it happens a lot, Jonjones. Often the other woman is fatter and less attractive than the wife, and that’s what can bamboozle the wife so much. They don’t understand it. Say the wife is hot, but she’s a total ice queen who’s rarely open for business, then hey, sometimes hubby will go looking for someone to give him what the hot/cold wifey won’t. And in those sometimes, it may mean him getting it from a fugly. Some blokes will just settle for what they can get. Real talk.
If I wanted to creep up my husband’s mistress just to see what she was like, I wouldn’t talk to her, I’d just straight-up creep her. I’d only talk to her if, as thisisnotanexit said, I wanted to actually hear what she had to say.
i agree with the girls on here. the only reason i would look up the girl just to see what she was like. no need to yell at the girl for hooking up with your guy. the guy wasnt forced to sleep with her im sure, so ultimately you should try to ruin his life not hers LOL
Hi, longtime lurker, seldom poster. I believe the password is: “I have epic tits.” Which I do.
Word has it spot-on. The wife is just blathering on about how married the guy is (and FYI, he sucks in the sack.) It sounds like she’s pleading with Manda “oh, please don’t take him away from me, wouldn’t you please think of the children?” If you’re going to be that wishy washy about it, I probably was only talking, but might have a run at it now for sport.
Wife needs to get some gumption, knock her cheating husband off his ass financially, and as Miss Shegas said: “Boom! Revenge, bitches!” and that’s all she wrote. This guy is all dick, no balls.