Ah yes, the ol’ He-raped-me-I-didn’t-cheat-on-you trick. I remember Uncle Hank got in a bitter divorce with his ex (my Auntie Midge at the time) because he tried to say that _I_ was the one who raped _HIM_.
Hank was into some pretty weird shit, so I think it was the fact that he used to fart in her face while she gave him analingus that really sent her over the edge. Hank had bad showering habits as well, so that didn’t help.
On the other hand, they were pretty similar in that they both liked dropping mudbabies on my chest when I was four, up until I was about…13? Once they saw fur where there was no fur before, Uncle Hank sat on me in a weird position and almost crippled my weener. It was at this point that Auntie Midge left him and the 8 kids on the street.
David just wants everybody to know how important, dramatic, and complicated his life is (that’s why he has to explain it on his facebook page make sure everybody is clear on every minute detail of his ex-girlfriend’s rape sesh).
The whole use of parenthesis is what I find amusing with this one. It’s like he says”Rob So & So you’re a dead meat” Stops and turns to us, the audience like on Saved By The Bell and explains, “He tried to rape my ex…blah blah blah”. As if he needs to explain to those not in the know the reason why he’s so angry. Silly boy.
@23 Michael – I was imagining the “Rob, you’re a fucking dead meat”bit as part of an opening montage for a film-noir style movie, with the next bit as a noir-esque anti-hero voice-over. Made it much more interesting.
@Jonas – kinda like “her mouth says no, but her eyes say yes?”
man, this people seem to be a little confused –
- your girlfriend being forcibly raped means she cheated on you?
- your girlfriend not successfully being raped also means she cheated on you?
Just wanted to let you know that someone has seen all of your posts on the different threads.
With different names of uncle’s in every one and various horrendous incest stories each time, are we really meant to take you seriously? If these aren’t true then you need just as much help as if they were true. It is undermining and disrespectful to all of the poor people who REALLY went through those sorst of horrible ordeals.
@jenni Y’know what’s ACTUALLY bad? When a woman (much like yourself) cheats on her significant other, then claims that the person she cheated with forced himself on her to try and make it look like she’s a victim, and not a lying, cheating whore.
So please, don’t get all “Victim blaming is BAD.”, when women are the ones who make false claims of being the victim to try and get out of what they’ve done in the FIRST PLACE!
Victim blaming is bad. Lying about being the victim of a crime is also bad, but rape is the only crime where the victim is automatically doubted and the burden of truth placed on her (or him) — how often do you question whether a burglary or mugging actually happened? Not often, I’ll bet. Here’s hoping you grow out of your misogyny.
The burden of proof is always placed on the person alleging a crime.
The presumption of innocence, and the requirement of evidence is pretty fundamental to the law in most democratic countries.
Victim blaming doesn’t question whether a rape took place, but suggests that a victim encouraged an attack. Victim blaming is disgusting, and I cannot imagine any sane person suggesting that any victim of violence asked for it.
Victim blaming is a social issue, and not a legal one. The idea that women are the gatekeepers to sex, and that any openness sexually is an invitation to sexual aggression is social, not legal.
If I claim that you broke into my house, or mugged me, the burden of proof is entirely on me. I have to prove that you committed such a crime. This is true in ALL crimes.
The major issue with regard to rape is social stigma, not legal. The fact that women do not come forward due to potential social repercussions mean that other women do not come forward due to social repercussions. Rapists know this and count on it. If every rape was reported than every rapist would have multiple allegations and little chance to hide.
WOW, the reasoning here. First, Christopher thinks that if someone tries to rape his GF, she’s cheating. Then comes Lara, who points out that it’s *not* cheating, because she *wasn’t* raped, it was just a try.
I’m going to kill myself now.
Also, Joshua: I think you missed Jenni’s point. Yes, those kind of women suck, but that really wasn’t the point here.