Just because a guy is nice to me doesn’t mean I have to suck his dick. You’re friendzoned because you’re a whiny horndog who isn’t nice because you’re nice, you’re nice because you want something in return. And don’t act like guys do the same thing…pass over girls who like them for girls with giant cans.
young girls dont want nice guys because they’er all dramatic bitches. Dating a nice guy who treats you right is boring because then they have nothing to complain about their dickhead boyfriend. I feel like its a self fulfilling prophecy. Girls are used to hearing other girls go on about their dickhead boyfriends so they want to do the same. So they need to friendzone the nice guys so they have more people to complain to, and they need to date the douches so they have more to complain about.
With facebook, we live in a very “brag about how bad your life is” society really. We all know 20 people whose facebook feeds are just bitchy rants over and over with the occasional “such a beautiful day out today!!” followed by “god its so hot my vag is sweating like a pigs, I hate this shit”
I did not ignore a nice guy once. He claimed to be one, at least. However, he wasn’t – he just used “the nice guy”-image to get sympathy so that he could get girls interested in a dominant and selfish guy that totally had his head up his ass. Still looking for the truly nice guy…
And yes Aveirulz, in Scandinavia, girls do the first move very often. I’m Norwegian, I know.
Women seem to prefer men who belittle them, tell them they are overweight, and ogle their friends, whilst obsessing over sport and ignoring them.
Men seem to prefer women who are vacuous, vain, and with large mammary glands, over women with real substance.
Sad but true!
Boomstick is correct. And yes, I am a woman with rather small boobs, but I’ve had my normal share of boyfriends. Guys, If you really liked someone, you would man up and ask them out. It’s true that most “nice” guys are just nice to any girl with the hope they will finally get laid until someone takes the bait.
There are two kinds of nice guys: nice and normal- which is very hard to find, and nice but weird- shirt tucked into jeans, can’t hold a normal conversation that isn’t about their area of expertise, strange etiquette, overpraises you, thinks a first date equals a relationship…pheew! I could go on.
Unless I find “nice and normal,” I’m steering clear of nice. The latter group really creeps me out.
I was one of those “nice guys” back in school. I never backed down from asking a girl out and dated often, BTW.
I lost one to a bad boy once, who she married, and it broke my heart. 25 years later I found her again…she is on her third husband (two killed themselves) with a kid by each and has herpes (which she tried to give to me). I on the other hand found a nice plumpkin with average sized breasts and have been married to only her for those same 25 years.
Stay nice be genuine and just ask her out.
Oh, and I found over the years that most women want money.
Women don’t like jerks. Women like men who are confident enough to make the first move. If the “nice guys” would stop with the “but if I make the first move I’ll look like a male chauvinist pig” nonsense and actually say “I like you and want to see if we can turn like into love” first then they’d get more dates.
Confidence is sexy, men. Guys who sit around waiting for women to make the first move always end up alone.
@jamisings: no, women just want to make sure the guys actually really like them, as they know that a few days/weeks/years from now, what they call “love” would actually have gone away and they are likely to be dumped like shit. Nothing related to confidence.
See, I wouldn’t make the first move with you.
@ jamisinger, I think that you are correct. Confidence is huge.
BTW, 87% of the women in America will not make a first move.
One of the big problems is that once the guy has made the move it would be nice if the girl actually played and didn’t watch. So many women seem to expect the man to make the next five or ten moves too.
I made it interesting to read by imagining some details about their spouses.
Beatus’ wife has a severe intellectual impairment from when she signed up for experimental drug trials in college and is borderline autistic; and mad’s wife is a mail-order bride from Serbia with a simmering hatred of western culture and a hare-lip.
see? isn’t it interesting now?
Sometimes guys just want to explain that they are friendzoned because girls just likes jerks, instead of looking into mirror. Just for example, I have some “firendzoned” guys, which are my friends but nothing more (thought they wanted to be more), one alcoholic, one is chauvinistic (no one can stand those women belongs to kitchen etc jokes all the time, those kind of jokes doesn’t make you attractive, just for advise), one is a cheater and one is very arrogant and elitist, and the last one is a dumb racist. And they almost all thinks that they don’t have girlfriends just because they are too nice. I can be more or less friends with them (some are good friends of mine), but nothing more, and that is not because I like jerks, because I do not.