She says he knows nothing about her which would seem to imply that she knows nothing about him. Yet she assumes that they have nothing in common despite this. Dumbass. Newsflash: Not everyone wants to have sex with you just because they talk to you.
You lose all credibility and kudos when you self submit. Lexi, the only person that’s lame here is you. He sent you a whopping 9 messages over an 8 month period, most of which were just a simple ‘Hey’. Get a clue.