1. There is nothing wrong with porn, or the people who make it. There is however a problem with a society that can not get enough of it yet does everything it can to devalue the people who give them what they want. The secret is people are afraid of death, this fear is so overwhelming for some that it causes severe trauma. For many the way they cope with this trauma is the shared delusion of religion. Despite many people with mental illness having religious issues no one seems to be willing to admit that most religious fixations are in fact trauma based mental illness.
2. While I don’t personally “pay for play” I laud the people who sell sex. I get that on the surface it seems wrong, but as with so many things one must look below the surface to see the motivations and the truths therein. The vast majority of regulated sex trade is perfectly healthy, for every horny young person seeking physical relief a fair amount of others are simply seeking comfort and affection. They lack the ability to find it in other ways or don’t desire intimate relationships for a variety of reasons and the sex trade provides it. Whether legal or illegal the sex trade exists everywhere. Yet where it is illegal and frowned upon it is exponentially more likely you will find underage sex slaves for sale or rent. A fact we in the US like to sweep under the rug.
3. Trust me no matter how big or small, and regardless of what your face looks like someone will want you.
I disagree with you on point #1, Friendzone. I have yet to see a real life lesbian couple that looks as good as the ones in the porn flicks. Every time I’ve seen a lesbian couple, one of them looks like a man that could kick Rodney Dangerfield’s ass.