She is a dummy. Then again, I would have preferred to see some drama. I listen to girls bitch about somebody all the time, but I know I’m hearing their twisted version. I don’t think this is lame unless the chick comments too and confirms it.
I’m not sure this is that lame. I mean, it’s a bit of a TMI on David’s part, but he’s hurt. Ian’s joking is a little psychotic, but he’s just trying to break the tension and show David he’s a loyal friend. These guys are kind of… normal.
Count Blah is an idiot. Women are an evil species that would be wiped off this planet, if it wasn’t for the whole “baby” thing. If this world was 100% male, they’d create the most amazing sex toys possible and having sex would a tree would FINALLY be allowed.
Hold the phone, I agree with Ben. Yeah, most people have been cheated on, but when ALL of them have cheated? You’re probably pretty unbearable.
If a person is going to cheat, they’re going to cheat and there’s nothing you can do about it. What most people don’t realize is that perfectly faithful individuals can be driven to cheat, even if it’s outside of their nature. Common causes of cheating (when it’s the cheatees fault) are: abuse, emotional or physical, or (and this is the biggest one): constantly accusing the other person of cheating. WTF. People will only put up with that shit for so long before they get sick of being punished for something they’re not doing – so fuck it, they cheat.
yep being cheated on sucks balls but seriously you think talking about punching her in the stomach to make her lose her baby is pathetic! hey that baby may not be yours but its still a child, your no better than the pathetic parents who beat the crap out of their children.
what your wrote is disgusting, pathetic and immature grow the fuck up you loser
It’s probably not that David is such a horrible person/ so bad in bed that women are driven to cheat on him. He probably is attracted to the type of woman who would cheat in the first place. Several girls I know do this with abusive guys, and end up in an abusive and destructive relationship time after time. It’s depressing.
Uh, yeah. No. People do not FEEL stuck. Sometimes, you literally cannot leave. As in the person will not let you. As in they are abusive and steal your money when you try, and then you call the cops and they don’t do anything, and they threaten your friends and family.
So I guess it must be nice for you. What a charmed life you do lead.
Yes. It is nice. The first time a guy acts like a douchebag, I’m outta there. If you know about abuse, you know there are ALWAYS red flags. And there are ALWAYS choices – like women’s shelters, etc.
And if a woman feels her life is in danger if she leaves, do you REALLY think she’s going to risk cheating?
Ahhhhhhhhhh so now we’re playing the “it’s all the victim’s fault” game. Abusers can fool you for months at a time, sometimes it’s too late. And women’s shelters are often just as abusive to women as abusers – psychologically and financially.
And to answer your question: I’ve seen it happen more than once.
But I think since you’re so judgmental of victims, it’s pretty safe to say that you’re abusive as well – so I guess whatever you have to tell yourself to make yourself feel like mistreating people is justifiable.
fyi – I’ve been there. I’m don’t mean to blame the victim. I suppose it kind of sounded like that. I’ve been the victim. I know about the cycle of abuse. I just think that cheating is a result of values and morals, not a result of a bad situation and it was a short-sighted observation to make.
@come on – what. being short-sighted? Could be right.
@southernbelle – true story. I seriously didn’t mean to come off as blaming the victim. I truly don’t and get super-annoyed when people say that “if she stays, she deserves it.”
Ok, ok –
David needs to stop picking cheater girls, and his gf sucks for cheating. And Kevin kinda sucks for suggesting punching her in the stomach and then, what…killing her? Well THAT’S a little harsh, huh?
The solution for David is simple. He is obviously constantly going after women who are prone to this sort of behavior. The patterns are pretty obvious if you focus on their attitude and behavior and a little less on just the ass and titties. If you pay even a little bit of attention, slutty, amoral women are easily recognized and can be avoided.
The interaction between David and Whore can’t be criticized without allowing some room for the changes that each experiences as a result of the other. Due to things that people put importance on (rental lease agreement, bun in oven, he hits me because he loves me), they are afraid to bring about changes that will endanger these things. After quite probably mulling this over for months, Whore probably saw an opportunity to quit ‘cold-turkey’ and get some room temperature sausage at the same time, damn the consequences. I think she should have admitted her affair on facebook too. It would have been funnier.
What southernbelle said is true. Accuse someone of cheating relentlessly and they will cheat, or just plain leave your ass.
This girl cheated on this guy cause he’s a crybaby little bitch. Plain as day.
I don’t agree with cheating but there is always a reason someone does it.
How do you know this guy was whiny throughout the whole relationship? This status is posted directly after he finds out he was cheated on by his pregnant girlfriend. I don’t agree with his generalizing comments, but he’s also just angry. You have no idea what he was like in the relationship!
Also, people have reasons for doing everything. That doesn’t make it okay. Cheating is a dishonest and cruel thing to do. People have reasons for murder too.
And if she thinks he’s so whiny, then why doesn’t she leave him? She clearly wanted to be forgiven, and this obviously isn’t an abusive relationship, so don’t jump on me southernbelle. She cheated with the intention of being forgiven by her boyfriend. As far as we know, and given the evidence, he’s done nothing wrong and been good enough to her that she doesn’t want to leave.
So, no, I don’t think it was okay she cheated. Her reason wasn’t justified and it was immature, cruel and dishonest and he has every right to be mad. His friend says some weird things, but the cheatee is just angry and venting. He’s done little wrong.
@ Neil Gaiman’s Left Sock: “It’s probably not that David is such a horrible person/ so bad in bed that women are driven to cheat on him. He probably is attracted to the type of woman who would cheat in the first place.”
Thank you, that was my point. Not that the guy is so intolerable that women have to cheat on him. Although that’s possible, too.
And, before anyone jumps all over me, NO I’m not saying the this guy literally looks at a woman and goes, “Wow, she looks like a cheating whore, I MUST HAVE HER!”–it’s something subconscious. Maybe his mom cheated on his dad and so he doesn’t believe a healthy monogamous relationship is possible–and therefore inadvertently sets himself up to repeat history. Maybe (because he himself admits he’s a sexist prick) he wants so badly to believe women suck that his vibe is attracting exactly the kind of woman who’ll prove his theory. Whatever.
Me, I’m a magnet for dudes who are still getting over someone else. It’s not that I go looking for it; heck, most of the time the guys approach ME. But the good news is I’ve figured out why I’m putting out that vibe, and I’m working on fixing it.
I love to file false rape charges on men who didnt buy me a drink or call me after the first date. I also wear skirts so short that my labia and clit hang out, then slap men for noticing. Gang bangs make my nipples hard.
I agree with unlinked Boz here. He clearly says that was the closest he’s come to knocking a girl out so I doubt she’s abused. I also doubt a girl afraid of her guy would cheat on him and tell him to his face by herself. She expected to be forgiven before doing it and did it out of anger. That’s not his fault. My advice is to not date such a petty girl. She thought she would get away with is why she did it.
I feel for David. He appears to be a decent guy, uses restraint on his emotions rather than ressorting to violence with her. Poor guy sounds as if he’s in emotional pain. The skank is potentially carrying his child and she’s fucking other men…I think most men would find that soul destroying, especially as he has no ability to control how she behaves while pregnant. Get the paternity test, if yours then seek custody of the child.
@Boz and QQ: my friend pointed out to me that while I WANT to find a happy forever-relationship, I have a lot of fears that there’s no such thing (all the couples I know are deeply fucked up, I myself was married for almost a decade and it didn’t work out, etc.).
So basically the universe knows I’m scared of having another long-term relationship fail on me so it’s making sure that won’t happen–by preventing me from having ANY long-term relationship. (Or, for the less spiritual people in our studio audience, let’s just say my cynicism made a self-fulfilling prophecy.)
I generally have my head together, have awesome relationship skills, and know how to present myself well on dates–so there’s nothing about ME that’s gonna uniformly put guys off. And by this point I know all the signs of an abusive asshole without ever needing to have even ONE date with one. So the only remaining option is for the universe to send me perfectly nice guys who are either too flaky to settle down with ANYONE, or who just broke up with a long-term gf and aren’t ready to be with someone new. I also had two different guys break it off with me when an ex from years before resurfaced and wanted them back.
I think the key to breaking this cycle will be to make a list of what I want in my ideal guy (a VERY SPECIFIC list, because the universe is kind of stupid and overly literal when interpreting requests) and try to stop being afraid. Just because all my friends are either single or in dysfunctional relationships doesn’t mean those are the only two possible states of being, after all.
Wow, this post feels entirely too earnest for this website. But you asked for details, so…yeah.
How dare you all disagree with our expert opinions on relationships? The internet is the only place people actually BELIEVE us when we say we have experience with women. Which is why we post teal deers over-analyzing failed relationships.
i agree with all those who are pro-david. the fact that she cheated because she thought he would forgive her is crap and he clearly isn’t abusive because of the whole closest-ive-ever-come-to-hitting-a-girl thing
skora – southernbelle and I had “words” yesterday here. Her arguments are FAR too intelligent for “let my clit hang out.” That’s clearly a troll impersonating her. An adolescent troll who’s never seen a vagina to know that a “clit hanging out” would earn a spot in the freak show.
sigh… Lamebook admins, is it really THAT hard to allow people to register here? I’ll set it up for free.
This is getting pretty ridiculous.
I’ve seen a vagina… they’re pretty. (I’m not the fake southernbelle, haha, I’m actually pretty sick of all the impersonators here. Lamebook’s webmasters need to go to college for 3 weeks and figure out how to set up their site with accounts.)
I used to take testosterone so I could beat old people out of their bus fare so my clit grew like a small cock. My labia needs surgery to get cut back because it is getting to drag on the ground….here is proof.. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labiaplasty
That was me before I got into a 20 niga gang bang….
i know both of these guys and attended highschool with them. david is a sad little emo who is 24 and the . girlfriend in question is a 16 year old high school student. ian is a very odd kid who dresses up in the anime girl doll style…whatever thats called. and wears makeup.
with regards to sukmyboomsticks comment that if david paid more attention to the behaviour and attitudes of the slutty amoral women he ends up with rather than their ass and titties then david would never get laid. What David’s real problem is his emotional insecurities that cause him to form a relationship with said slutty amoral women and cling to them and convincing himself he’s in love, rather than just banging them and going search of another slut too bang.
David is indeed a first class wanker who can’t be bothered to wank.
In response to Sean Connery’s comment, The police need to be called on you. Violence in any shape or form is unacceptable especially when a man hits a woman!!! Only a coward would find this an acceptable way to teach somebody a lesson!!!!
please…men hitting women isnt acceptable? double standard, if a chick hit me and i were a dude id hit her back. women can call men names and threaten to beat their asses all the time for stupid shit, but when its a man saying it, call the cops? please. when you stop acting like a lady, you arent a lady in my book. slap her pregnant ass.
You said that there’s a double standard and that you, if you were a man, would retaliate against a woman who hit you. Fine, whatever. The pregnant slut didn’t hit anyone, though. Hitting her would be initiating the violence, not responding to violence. Also, she’s pregnant. She’s carrying around a vulnerable fetus. Finally, most people think men hitting women is wrong for the same reason that we think non-disabled people shouldn’t beat up on people in wheelchairs. There’s a considerable strength difference. It’s considered almost dishonorable to fight someone who’s physically so much weaker than you are. You can call that a double standard if you want, but it’s not altogether crazy to have different standards when there are *actual* differences.